I Am Pregnant
You may be wondering if you can change your mind about adoption, and the answer is always yes. You have the right to change your mind until you sign a consent to adoption, which is after you give birth.
It is easy to change your mind at any point before birth and signing the consent form. Simply inform your adoption coordinator that you will not go through with the adoption.
Adoption is a great way to handle an unplanned pregnancy, but it might not be the right fit for everyone. Working with an adoption specialist can help you learn more about your options and talk through them. That way, if you chose adoption you know that you made the right choice when it comes time to finalize the adoption.
Adoption specialists can help you create your adoption plan so you have a clear idea of what the adoption process looks like. They can also help you as you choose an adoptive family or decide if you want an open or closed adoption. With their support, you’ll have a better idea of all of your options so you feel more confident about your decision.
Birth mothers can change their minds at any point during the adoption process. Even if you have been working with an agency, you have the right to change your mind. After giving birth, and before the adoption is finalized, you’ll have an opportunity to think through your decision and have one final chance to change your mind. If you’re having second thoughts, talk to your adoption coordinator, or someone in your life who you trust.
Once the adoption is finalized, you won’t be able to change your mind. There are rare exceptions for unique cases, in which case you’d want to get in touch with a professional who can help you explore your options.
Since it’s almost impossible to “undo” an adoption, it’s important to think deeply about your decision before finalizing the adoption. Then, when you’re fully confident in your choice, you can move forward and finalize the adoption.
Birth fathers have certain rights during the adoption process. His say in the process depends on his relationship to the birth mother and how involved he is. Depending on his involvement, the birth father can stop an adoption. If the father decides to challenge an adoption or refuse to waive his parental consent, it could stop an adoption. Our caseworkers can talk to you about your unique situation in these cases. An adoption expert can help you figure out how the birth father fits into your adoption plan.
If you’re considering adoption but worried about making the right choice, get in touch with our caring caseworkers